Are you Doing the Most?

So this is something I wrote and commented on somtime in 2009. I think it is still relevant out there and will like to hear more thoughts and comments on my views.

First of all what does it mean to be single, it means that you do not have a ring on your finger and if you do, you have not said I do.  Now to the main topic are you doing the most?

You are doing the most if any one of this applies to you:

1. He/She has the keys to your apartment
2. Putting things in each others name i.e, Letting him use your credit to get stuff or you are the cosigner on his/her car note or mortgage
3. Sex without condoms (personally I believe in abstinnece. "God help me with that"). PS: Before you ask someone to marry you or say yes, please ensure that you have your HIV test at hand, and I for one will sure have mine too.
4. Calling each other "My Boo.   He/She ain't yours till you get married. They can still have other options if they choose.
5. Playing house i.e Cleaning, cooking and doing his laundry for him everyday
6. Moving in together

Summary:

To the Ladies most especially, all the actions above sums up to giving someone else the opportunity to use you up.  In the Bible, Proverbs 4:23 states that  "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life."  That is your heart is the gateway to many things in your life as such we have to ensure that we guard our heart's each day, communicate with the guy "we are talking to" and set appropriate boundaries from the start while ensuring that we stick to them.  That way we can be at ease that we are most likely not doing the most.